Do you really have a choice?
Human beings were given the freedom over will. Whatever religious views you prescribe to, you as an individual have to make day to day decisions. In essence the decisions that we make every second play a major role in shaping out your future. From choosing what colour of shoes to wear to whether to apply for that new job or even whether or not to keep that pregnancy. All those aforementioned are decisions: Choices. The thing about decisions is that no one can make them for you. People can advice you, experience can teach you and destiny can guide you but at the end of the day the cycle of life cannot proceed without you making a choice.
Its common for people to say ‘ I did not have a choice’ . That is a paradox in itself because it usually comes right after someone has made a decision. As human beings, we naturally prefer to take the easy way out. Rarely do we take responsibility of actions that may impact a people negatively. We mostly take credit for positive actions and thus the need to say ‘I did not have a choice’ or ‘It is not my fault’
The understanding of choice liberates a man. If you want to spend your whole life letting things happen to you, you have chosen it. Nothing just happens, everything is orchestrated by choice. So why not make decisions that tailor fit your needs, desires, goals, and beliefs. You choose what you want your legacy to be.
To make a choice is easy but to consciously make a choice is hard. To get ahead at work, you may need to brush a lot of people the wrong way on your way to the top. A conscious decision for someone who is not driven by greed, jealousy, and materialism will vary from a person who does not hold any of these qualities. Be it as it may the decisions you make as an individual will draft a path for you either closer to your destiny or further.
Thats all Im saying
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