Do you attract what you get? I highly believe so and I have evidence to prove it. So this post is for all of you out there who keep asking why you keep dating the same type of people,why the same problem occurs in your life,why you cant get ahead...bla bla.
First, you have low ambition. Story 1: Im a single man in my late twenties. Im single by choice I guess. The problem is the women who have been,trying to be or are in my life have all been psychotic one way or the other. They all really smart,talented,witty but when we hook up they go crazy. From trying to steal my sperm to trying to kill themselves. Whats the deal here?
My Opinion: Like I said Low ambition. There are many good women out there who are not psychotic. In actual sense what Im seeing here is a typical case of denial. These women were clearly sane before they met you. There a lot of factors that go into driving a woman crazy but thats a story for another day. What you need to establlish first and foremost is what you intend to get out of these relationships. Why so? Women are more decisive than men when it comes to relationships in my opinion. Did you know that a woman can tell where she wants to take the relationship from the first meeting. So she may want marriage and you may want a good SHORT time. That creates a problem as she will want things that you are not willing to give and then she will either walk away or like yours,turn psychotic.
Now do you see how it is your problem.
Thats all Im saying.
Happy Tuesday.
To be cont:
laws of attraction: "like attracts like"
ReplyDeleteu can't keep doing d same thing over & over and expect a different result coz what u give is what u get.
MY OPINION ON STORY1- in whatever relationship u r in, define it from the word "go".
that way things will be much easier on both parties involved as they'll be doing so with clear consciousness & precise direction.
laws of attraction: "like attracts like"
ReplyDeleteu can't keep doing the same thing over & over and expect a different result coz what u give is what u get.
MY OPINION ON STORY1- in whatever relationship u are in, define it from the word "go".
that way, things will be much easier on both parties involved as they'll be in it with clear consciousness & precise direction.
Two people to jell or not is determined by being on the same page. So tell your partner what you want so that you stop wasting eachothers time.
ReplyDeleteWhen two people meet, the reasons behind their attraction to each other are different. For the one it might be (oh my God i have finally met the ONE), for the other it might be (hey this person is cool, lets see how far we will go). At this point you now have two people in one relationship pursuing two different objectives. One might be seeking marriage and the other a relationship. Note the distinction i have made between the two as relationship would suggest getting to know each other, have good times and work your way together towards something more solid and defined. Marriage suggests that in every aspect of their time together ultimate goal is taking each other to the alter. This is were we have, when do i meet your family, i need some form of commitment from you, lets move in together all happening within a short space of time.
ReplyDeleteThus defining the boundaries of a relationship is difficult becoz no one really knows what the other really feels when you are in one.In most cases we get into them for the wrong reasons with the wrong person and cry foul when it turns sour. I don't believe that all man are to blame for making a woman crazy but probably they were never meant to be together in the first place coz they don't bring out the best in each other or complement each other in any way. Plus we women tend to be very sensitive and emotional.
ok now talk talk...
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